When
someone spends a life helping others, it only seems her good Karma
would come back around one day and visit her. It would make sense
that he same compassion and outreach she had shown to many, would
someday resurface in the form of aid when she needed it the most.
Thankfully, Marzetta Frazier of Woodbury truly feels that kindness
each month, thanks to the Food Bank of South Jersey and the food
pantry it supplies, at the Spoken Word Evangelistic Church.
Marzetta spent many of her years working in outreach - mainly working
in social and family services programs as a profession. Over the
years, she would be responsible helping teems of residents in and
around South Jersey who were battling drug and alcohol addiction.
It was at Cooper Hospital, where she worked with pregnant women
who were substance abusers.
But her passion ran deep, and when Marzetta was diagnosed with Multiple
Sclerosis in 1995, even then that didn’t stop her from continuing her outreach; she
went on to work until she physically couldn’t and continued to help the
masses up until 1998, when her physical debilitation had rendered her handicapped
and reliant on a wheelchair, home aides and nurses.
It wasn’t until a kind neighbor told her of the Spoken Word Evangelistic
Church in Woodbury – and of the FBSJ having a food pantry – that
she finally was able to get relief getting food and supporting her household
with food items. “I had no idea that the food pantry was just one block
from my house – at the church - and now that I know, I can get nutritious,
quality food there. You can get chicken, canned goods, rice, spaghetti. It’s
always healthy foods, too. After I get the food, my nurse aides can cook it for
me and the family. Sometimes, when I am unable to get proper transportation or
a nurse aide to help me get out of bed, the pastor’s mother will bring
me what’s leftover. That has been so nice of them.”
Marzetta, who lives with her 22-year old son Thomas and his 1 ½ year old
daughter, says it’s family support, in conjunction with the help of the
Food Bank, that has helped to make her load easier to carry. Just knowing where
to get the food is half the battle. “The food bank helps you financially,
because it’s the food I normally would have had to buy for my home,” says
Marzetta. “I use my experience with the Food Bank to alert others to the
food pantries that may be near them. I want to reach out to people who also need
food, and let them know about this great organization.”
A Letter from Diane E. Naylor:
To Whom It May Concern,
The
reason I am sending this back to you is not to send a donation, but
to let you know that you are correct in saying there are
many hungry people here in South Jersey. My husband and I are only
49 and 50 years old, do not have any children, but know what is like
to be hungry.
I was working at the same job for 30 years when I lost
it 6 ½ months
ago, taking with it all of my medical too. Now we have no insurance
and I am supposed to be on a lot of medications. I have had to stop
taking them, due to lack of money. I do receive unemployment every
month, but this barely covers the regular bills. The bills come first
(which I am behind on anyway), and food comes second. As far as food
goes, there is very little of it in the house. My husband also lost
his job, but cannot collect unemployment.
I have always been the type of person who donated to The Food Bank
whenever I could afford it. But that ended when I lost my job. All
of my savings in the bank are gone. I think we may have $10 in the
bank at the most. And I have $3 in my wallet. That is all we have
to live on until my next unemployment check in two weeks.
I feel bad for all the hungry children and the elderly who have no
food. I never knew what it was like until I lost my job on April
1st. My heart goes out to them. I now know what they are going through
and it isn’t pleasant.
I just want to say thank you for the work you do with these people
and wish I could contribute even a few dollars. But at this time
that just isn’t possible. Thank you for taking the time to
read this.
Sincerely,
Diane E. Naylor
Fighting Hunger and Malnutrition in South Jersey Since
1985